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There's a chance that doing my own make-up for the wedding might be a disaster (haven't had practise for almost two years), or letting a pro do it, so that my relatives and friends probably won't recognize me. (Has happened, for real! Looking later at pictures going "who's that?":))). A little thing beside the big stuff.

I must say, that last year, when our friends got married and on the hen night (it was actually a day and more like making-stuff-for-the-wedding event) the bride was asked about her make-up and she said, that there won't be any. Ohohoh!.. all girls where like "Nooo! You must! OMG!", of course: me too. I remember offering kindly and strongly to help out. Now as i'm on the other side, i get it. Let's leave make-up aside for now. Getting married, having a wedding is a universal kind of thing, it's like this meme, no one really knows exactly how it's like, but when we see it, then we either recognize it as "right" or we don't. As in "seeing it" i mean speaking of it. Because being in a wedding we associate it the people involved and take it as what it is in that moment of time, but in words explaining and picturing it, is difficult. There is a lot of "no" going on. Or rather "it ain't right". "It doesn't feel right".
In the end my friend looked pretty on her wedding day. Did she put on mascara or not, wasn't important, the focus was somewhere else. She did it the way she felt was comfortable and right for her, and it was. Now, i'm a bit sorry that she had to defend herself from our avalanche-like make-up advice. You did great!

Conclusion? No conclusion. It is surely not the only topic this applies to. It's always interesting to change the angle - a lot more pops out.

Have a great week!

We'll be heading to some island fun this week! Vacation-time!